I first wrote out as an answer to the above question like: "No, it fucking don't". Then good and strong people sniggered a bit and said to me that the words gone true, now what do you ("I") want.. Well, lets start again.
To the question: "Do spirituality come with apperances" the answer is - that only you decide what you are and how you want to be. The only advice is to be your self, and don't try to be something your not. But if you feel like acting like a fool, first make sure your humor is not out of place.
If there are people around you in meditation or in prayer. Honor their practice by being quiet.
It's a thing of the ego. If you feel the need to be in...